KANPUR TO MUMBAI
I was born in Kanpur, in a small Hindi-medium world, where English was something only “big people” spoke. Like many non-English medium students, English always felt distant and intimidating. I studied only till the 6th standard in Kanpur, and for most of my childhood, English felt far away.
My father was already working in Mumbai as a journalist for an Urdu newspaper, Urdu Times. He was an honest journalist — the kind who never took money from politicians, builders, or anyone with power. He lived on his simple salary, and he lived with dignity.
When our financial situation became tight, my mother and I shifted to Mumbai to join him. We settled in Mumbra, a place that has shaped my heart and identity even today.
Life wasn’t easy. When the need arose, I worked.
From Class 9 to Class 12, I worked as a waiter in wedding catering. Not fancy parties — real Mumbai weddings in places like Roha, Pen, Nagothane, Kalyan, Thane, and many small towns around.
Heavy utensils. Long nights. Big crowds.
I wasn’t ashamed — I was learning life.
Those weddings taught me humility, confidence, and how to speak to all kinds of people.
Years later, when I began writing about communication and confidence, I realised something important:
that was my first communication training — long before English ever entered my life.
And perhaps that is why, today as an author writing for students from non-English medium backgrounds, I understand their hesitation, their silence, and their desire to speak with confidence.